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Grief support

Grief affects everyone differently. Support can be helpful at different times and in different ways. This page offers general guidance and options that may help.

If you are unsure what to do, call us.

If you need extra support

  • If you feel overwhelmed, reach out to someone you trust.
  • Support can be personal, community based, or professional.
  • If you are concerned about safety, seek urgent help straight away.
You can contact us at any time.

In the first days

Many people experience shock, exhaustion, or difficulty concentrating in the first days after a death. Accept help where you can, and focus on what is most important.

Small things that can help
  • Eat and rest as best you can
  • Let others help with practical tasks
  • Take breaks from decisions when you need to

In the weeks and months ahead

Grief can change over time. Some people feel worse after the funeral, when daily life begins to resume. This is normal, and support can still be helpful.

Support options
  • Family and friends
  • Community groups and faith based support
  • Counsellors and professional services

Children and grief

Children often grieve in different ways to adults. Simple explanations, routine, and space to talk can help. If you are worried, seek professional guidance.

Helpful approach
Use clear language, answer questions honestly, and let children know they are safe and supported.

When to seek urgent help

If you are worried about your safety or someone else’s safety, seek urgent help immediately. If you are unsure where to start, contact emergency services.

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